Friday, December 19, 2008

17 Signs you love someone

17 Signs you love someone


SEVENTEEN: You look at their profile constantly.


SIXTEEN: When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.


FIFTEEN: You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.


FOURTEEN: You walk really slow when you're with them.

THIRTEEN: You feel shy whenever they're around.


ELEVEN: When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.


TEN: You smile when you hear their voice.


NINE: When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.


EIGHT: You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.


SEVEN: They're all you think about.


SIX: You get high just from their scent.


FIVE: You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.


FOUR: You would do anything for them!


THREE: While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.


TWO: You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number twelve was missing


ONE: You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.



NOW MAKE A WISH. YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO.......

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Ian Knight's shoots























If anyone thinks these photos are nice. Please visit http://www.irkphotography.com/ or http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=765840719&ref=mf to find out my photographer.


Thanks for the shooting Ian Knight.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

变化

20042005







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2008



曾经有想过,如果你跟一个人在一起一段日子后,突然,你发现他/她已不是哪一个他/她。你会怎么做?




有一个刚从澳洲留学回来的朋友,刚回来不到一个礼拜就已经和女友分手了,这也结束了他们九年的感情。从我亲自见证他们在一起热恋至今到没感觉而分手。原因是因为他们找不到从前的感觉。而我也是有同感。自己很想证明给别人知道其实long distance relationship是可以维持的,因为刚好在身边的朋友们也是long distance relationship。




在很多不同种类的杂志我都有阅读到不同的两性关系,而从这些资料分析中,我觉得其实long distance relationship 是可以维持的。这只是要看当事人要怎么与对方妥协和维持。




我的这位朋友给了我一个很大的启示,在想无论如何你喜欢的人与你失去了当时热恋的感觉也不应该闹分手就算了。要知道这个世界要找一个适合自己的人真是大海捞针。现在这个一夜情时代已经很普遍,要找一个人发泄并不难; 但是,如果要找一个知己是非常难。想一想,你喜欢以前的他可能不在,可是可能现在的他比以前变了少许,这并不代表分手是一个好办法。毕竟,都已经一起有一段日子了。分开冷静可能会比分手来的好吧!




我的经验与他们的来得类似,也是有不分上下的感情;可是我的就比较纠缠一些。可能我不想失去一个我觉得我很喜欢的人。毕竟我们在一起也有一段日子了。不知道为什么我喜欢的人总是不在本地,都是喜欢往海外发展。首先是加拿大、新加坡在来是澳洲(纽西兰、美国、香港、英国等....)我有一个长久而固定的知己,可是最近我也发觉从国外多年然后返回本地的他已经不是我所向往的那一个人,反之,感觉上他就变成另一个人似的。




要知道维持一段感情是很难,如果互相迁就的多就会变得很厌倦;而且爱上一个人更难,毕竟需要时间去了解对方的短长。怎么办?好像很矛盾- 人就是这样. 但我始终相信,在外边认识的人或有过一夜情关系的人都比不上家里的哪一个,因为可以睡在你旁边的人不是那么简单,而且他比一般人都了解你。





唉!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Miss my friends

Behind: Danny / Sam / Kent
In fornt: Michelle / Lian / Kim / Mei


I looked up to my photo frame just now.. so dusty ... I was trying to clean it up and I realized that I have a bunch of good friends. and I miss them out of sudden. 4 yrs back we were gethered together at Kent's house. We were happily DRUNK.

Miss the moment being with you guys.

Hugs.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

"Rachel"


Here to Talk about another friend named"Rachel". this "fire lady", she is perfectly good in her personalities. Just want to say "Thank You" for everything that you have had done for me especially your warm hearted hospitality.







I am glad and greatful knowing her as a good friend.About her, We knew each other from "Wela Language Centre "last September. The first day she came to Malaysia she looked quite blur, insecure(shall I describe her like this?hahaha) and also had a bossy and arrogant look on her face,but when the first day she joined my class only I reliazed I was totally wrong from what the first impression she gave me.


She was a student whom can be very patient and hardworking in learning, you can just tell by looking at her sitting down and listening to the speaker in front patiently and quietly. Having her in class was fun too, she could sometimes make all of us laugh in the class.hahaha... Just because of that our friendship grows day by day.(forget to mention she is a Korean from Korea but everyone misunderstand and thought she is a Jap)

Brian We

Terry We



Hmmm... If you know her well then you will find out that she loves her two kids(Brian and Terry) so much also the way she educates them very differently from other families but sometimes she is very fierce to them.






Most of the time she is a happy go lucky lady, but sometimes when she is moody better you do not disturb or bother her, else you will get FIRE from her .... hahaha... yes, she will just tell you straight away "I don't like", "Ignorance" or "she will be silent" for a while or even a few days. There was a time tho she even went crazy and took a bus down to Sg by her own and enjoyed herself a day trip there.(kind of MAD)lol ...


But that is the Real her, in my life I have rarely seen Koreans can be this real in life, they often keep themselves highly protected and afraid of people will just sell them away but not her. I admire her having a good family, she has the skills to gather people around happily or even a skill to make people learn a lesson, and also a very skilled person in cooking(her cooking is fantastic)hahahha ... ops... I hope I am not telling too much ... Any way she used to take care of me by serving me nice foods and fresh fruits whenever I go to her house. I feel very warm having someone like that in my life, I will never have this kind of feeling else where except in Rachel's house. Just I have no where to show my appreciation but here.


Once again Thank You! Your Cooking is Super!!

Monday, February 4, 2008

Life Changes! Thing Changes! You and I both Different.




My feeling is floating today. Unsure Why? Doubted for a few seconds.... .... .... Just realize my life has just started without having my good buddies around.



Yes, my good friends used to come back to KL for their study break or holiday to spend time together. Recently, this time we are a bit different, we did not often spend time together.Probably the main reason is we were kind of busy with our own life.



Sadly to say, we are now growing older, as we are older we have many other more things to be taken care of. It does not seem to be like last time, we could have fun as much as we wanted,wherever and whenever.



However, the wonderful thing is we have enchanced out life styles to another stage, but all this needs sacrifices to built up such as friendship. Look back our childhood time, we often did stupid things and mistakes, but now even we want to be that stupid again we have to think twice and some of us even do not allowe themselves to do that any more.



I miss those days by hanging around with friends or someone you love. Especially, the feeling when you like someone that time.Trust me, we shall cherish the time being with someone also treasure with those people whom you think is worth to be with. Time! does not allowe us to stay any more longer during our happy moment.



I have been to KLCC last night, by coming down from the escalator near Kinokyniya book store, I still can remember this was the place where i met the one that I fell in love with. I remember extacly the moment and our first date.



Cool, it suddenly melted my heart and made me think of it. Gosh!! i miss that feeling so much but I no longer will get back the feeling that i wanted now......



Sigh... Sigh ... Life changes! thing changes! Time passes! You and I both Different.....

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Promote Mutual Understanding. Do you KNOW him well?

Understanding!

How many of YOU care to understand most of the people around you? How many of you Concern the people around you? your parents, friends, siblings, colleagues, partners, so call good buddies or someone whom you care the most.

This minute you tell them "I MISS U","I LIKE U","I LOVE U","I CARE FOR U","I CONCERN ABOUT U","I MADE SACRIFICES JUST FOR U","I KNOW WHAT U WANT" etc ... Do you mean it when u say that? Of course some of us does mean it and prove it but not every of us will do what they have said.

Human,you take time to understand someone that you just get to know,we all live together but do we all actually live together?It is very funny looking at all the difference people walking pass by us everyday,some of them you will realize you have seen them some where before or some of them you do not even have a chance to meet.The technology makes us get together so easily nowadays, just because of that we abuse using this authority, such a wonderful technology but some of us just do harmful things to harm people.What i am trying to say is how many of us are doing the right thing and on the right track?

Again, You take time to know a stranger.When you say HI to him or her that moment do you feel resisting of knowing them? No doubt,we all have that kind of feeling. But sometimes, A stranger could do something that an old friend cannot do, they can try to comfort us,to talk to us,to understand us,to give ideas to us,to even have one night stand to satisfy each other(which is true but not necessary).Why am i saying that?Trust me, when you feel not happy and you have no idea whom to share of. Lets try to talk to a stranger next to you,some of them will probably show you their concern (most of them).They will start asking you WHY?What Happen?What's wrong?etc ... trying to make u talk , to comfort u a bit.Unlike your old friends,some of them just say:"sigh... again this problem, why cant you make up your mind?Why do you put yourself into this situation?Why are you making yourself into hot water?You grow until so old now you still cannot solve these things?Hahahaha .... they will have many funny questions to ask you back. They just do not understand, the point of telling them is to share with them, to get comfort from them, to have solutions together with them, to prove them this is what a friend for when you are in a messy situation. So why not choose talking to someone that u just know rather then talking to someone than have known u for so long but do not understand your situation?

I am not saying that our buddies are not good, but since you know a friend for so long,after all you know they have problems why can't you give your shoulders and share with them?Why can't you listen to them? let them talk, speak up and show to you who they really are and want.Instead of ignoring, leaving them in pace.

It is funny and silly tho, when you see your best friends,siblings,father's or mother's siblings,colleagues or husband and wife quarrelling(even cheating,hurting,fighting,angry etc...) with each other.Why? Why does this things pop up into our life?shan't we be good to each other, to love each other or to understand each other instead of doing all these stupid things to harm people we know since we born and we love before?

I seem very emotional writing this,to look at the bright side sometimes a fight also can bring a stronger relationship and to understand on someone which is true, but it doesn't mean this applies to everyone out there.

yes, this is life. We learn things from those unhappy situations appeared on us then we try not to do it again next time.Meanwhile, we also slowly become selfish after all.(if u realize it)

DO you Agree?Yes, I do love u. But, how could i show my love to you? How could you prove to me you love me too?Why we love each other and we can't be together?I think many people have encountered this problem before,and this is also repeating in HUMAN's life and it will possibly happen on us.

Yes,for myself i have tried to do those things that i have written up there,some of them quite useful and some of them i even failed doing it.I do concern the people around me,anyone.... but sometimes i felt useless whenever people need help but i can't even offer a hand to help.sadly, i feel so bad and sorry.... no matter they are someone i LOVE,my family or my buddies. i have tried many other ways to bring us together but ... ...

To them:

I want to ask them too,All this while i have been doing so many things to you all, but have you thought about me?have you thought about my feelings?

No,You have not.