Promote Mutual Understanding. Do you KNOW him well?

Understanding!

How many of YOU care to understand most of the people around you? How many of you Concern the people around you? your parents, friends, siblings, colleagues, partners, so call good buddies or someone whom you care the most.

This minute you tell them "I MISS U","I LIKE U","I LOVE U","I CARE FOR U","I CONCERN ABOUT U","I MADE SACRIFICES JUST FOR U","I KNOW WHAT U WANT" etc ... Do you mean it when u say that? Of course some of us does mean it and prove it but not every of us will do what they have said.

Human,you take time to understand someone that you just get to know,we all live together but do we all actually live together?It is very funny looking at all the difference people walking pass by us everyday,some of them you will realize you have seen them some where before or some of them you do not even have a chance to meet.The technology makes us get together so easily nowadays, just because of that we abuse using this authority, such a wonderful technology but some of us just do harmful things to harm people.What i am trying to say is how many of us are doing the right thing and on the right track?

Again, You take time to know a stranger.When you say HI to him or her that moment do you feel resisting of knowing them? No doubt,we all have that kind of feeling. But sometimes, A stranger could do something that an old friend cannot do, they can try to comfort us,to talk to us,to understand us,to give ideas to us,to even have one night stand to satisfy each other(which is true but not necessary).Why am i saying that?Trust me, when you feel not happy and you have no idea whom to share of. Lets try to talk to a stranger next to you,some of them will probably show you their concern (most of them).They will start asking you WHY?What Happen?What's wrong?etc ... trying to make u talk , to comfort u a bit.Unlike your old friends,some of them just say:"sigh... again this problem, why cant you make up your mind?Why do you put yourself into this situation?Why are you making yourself into hot water?You grow until so old now you still cannot solve these things?Hahahaha .... they will have many funny questions to ask you back. They just do not understand, the point of telling them is to share with them, to get comfort from them, to have solutions together with them, to prove them this is what a friend for when you are in a messy situation. So why not choose talking to someone that u just know rather then talking to someone than have known u for so long but do not understand your situation?

I am not saying that our buddies are not good, but since you know a friend for so long,after all you know they have problems why can't you give your shoulders and share with them?Why can't you listen to them? let them talk, speak up and show to you who they really are and want.Instead of ignoring, leaving them in pace.

It is funny and silly tho, when you see your best friends,siblings,father's or mother's siblings,colleagues or husband and wife quarrelling(even cheating,hurting,fighting,angry etc...) with each other.Why? Why does this things pop up into our life?shan't we be good to each other, to love each other or to understand each other instead of doing all these stupid things to harm people we know since we born and we love before?

I seem very emotional writing this,to look at the bright side sometimes a fight also can bring a stronger relationship and to understand on someone which is true, but it doesn't mean this applies to everyone out there.

yes, this is life. We learn things from those unhappy situations appeared on us then we try not to do it again next time.Meanwhile, we also slowly become selfish after all.(if u realize it)

DO you Agree?Yes, I do love u. But, how could i show my love to you? How could you prove to me you love me too?Why we love each other and we can't be together?I think many people have encountered this problem before,and this is also repeating in HUMAN's life and it will possibly happen on us.

Yes,for myself i have tried to do those things that i have written up there,some of them quite useful and some of them i even failed doing it.I do concern the people around me,anyone.... but sometimes i felt useless whenever people need help but i can't even offer a hand to help.sadly, i feel so bad and sorry.... no matter they are someone i LOVE,my family or my buddies. i have tried many other ways to bring us together but ... ...

To them:

I want to ask them too,All this while i have been doing so many things to you all, but have you thought about me?have you thought about my feelings?

No,You have not.