Promote Mutual Understanding. Do you KNOW him well?

Understanding!

How many of YOU care to understand most of the people around you? How many of you Concern the people around you? your parents, friends, siblings, colleagues, partners, so call good buddies or someone whom you care the most.

This minute you tell them "I MISS U","I LIKE U","I LOVE U","I CARE FOR U","I CONCERN ABOUT U","I MADE SACRIFICES JUST FOR U","I KNOW WHAT U WANT" etc ... Do you mean it when u say that? Of course some of us does mean it and prove it but not every of us will do what they have said.

Human,you take time to understand someone that you just get to know,we all live together but do we all actually live together?It is very funny looking at all the difference people walking pass by us everyday,some of them you will realize you have seen them some where before or some of them you do not even have a chance to meet.The technology makes us get together so easily nowadays, just because of that we abuse using this authority, such a wonderful technology but some of us just do harmful things to harm people.What i am trying to say is how many of us are doing the right thing and on the right track?

Again, You take time to know a stranger.When you say HI to him or her that moment do you feel resisting of knowing them? No doubt,we all have that kind of feeling. But sometimes, A stranger could do something that an old friend cannot do, they can try to comfort us,to talk to us,to understand us,to give ideas to us,to even have one night stand to satisfy each other(which is true but not necessary).Why am i saying that?Trust me, when you feel not happy and you have no idea whom to share of. Lets try to talk to a stranger next to you,some of them will probably show you their concern (most of them).They will start asking you WHY?What Happen?What's wrong?etc ... trying to make u talk , to comfort u a bit.Unlike your old friends,some of them just say:"sigh... again this problem, why cant you make up your mind?Why do you put yourself into this situation?Why are you making yourself into hot water?You grow until so old now you still cannot solve these things?Hahahaha .... they will have many funny questions to ask you back. They just do not understand, the point of telling them is to share with them, to get comfort from them, to have solutions together with them, to prove them this is what a friend for when you are in a messy situation. So why not choose talking to someone that u just know rather then talking to someone than have known u for so long but do not understand your situation?

I am not saying that our buddies are not good, but since you know a friend for so long,after all you know they have problems why can't you give your shoulders and share with them?Why can't you listen to them? let them talk, speak up and show to you who they really are and want.Instead of ignoring, leaving them in pace.

It is funny and silly tho, when you see your best friends,siblings,father's or mother's siblings,colleagues or husband and wife quarrelling(even cheating,hurting,fighting,angry etc...) with each other.Why? Why does this things pop up into our life?shan't we be good to each other, to love each other or to understand each other instead of doing all these stupid things to harm people we know since we born and we love before?

I seem very emotional writing this,to look at the bright side sometimes a fight also can bring a stronger relationship and to understand on someone which is true, but it doesn't mean this applies to everyone out there.

yes, this is life. We learn things from those unhappy situations appeared on us then we try not to do it again next time.Meanwhile, we also slowly become selfish after all.(if u realize it)

DO you Agree?Yes, I do love u. But, how could i show my love to you? How could you prove to me you love me too?Why we love each other and we can't be together?I think many people have encountered this problem before,and this is also repeating in HUMAN's life and it will possibly happen on us.

Yes,for myself i have tried to do those things that i have written up there,some of them quite useful and some of them i even failed doing it.I do concern the people around me,anyone.... but sometimes i felt useless whenever people need help but i can't even offer a hand to help.sadly, i feel so bad and sorry.... no matter they are someone i LOVE,my family or my buddies. i have tried many other ways to bring us together but ... ...

To them:

I want to ask them too,All this while i have been doing so many things to you all, but have you thought about me?have you thought about my feelings?

No,You have not.

The first weekend in year 2008

Woke up late in the morning today(Sunday), opened the windows and i can see there was a shining sun on top of the blue sky,i was thinking what a sunny day today(but not after 2 hours rained like hell).

Nothing much special that i can do for today, thinking of asking an old friend for a late breakfast or early lunch,

A:Wei .... Ni Hao ... hahahaha .. i just woke up and thinking of asking you to meet up for lunch or something.

B:Hmm... hello Danny Chai .. don't tell me you just woke up,my god what is the time now!!

A:yea, i just woke up ... hehehehhe .. so how are you?i told u yesterday i will give u a call once i wake up right? i did what i promised you ok? so what's up? free to PAK TOU(date) with me?

B:ops... sorry dude .. i do not think i can hang out with you today, because i have to stay home and do some cleaning in my house, it is such a mess.... sorry ar ... sorry ar ... sorry ar...

A:(pissed off)hahahahah (pretending) oh , never mind that's ok, i just thought what a nice sunday morning can date you and we can have a nice chat today but too bad you reject me.lol.

B: yea , why are you so busy til you don 't even reply my sms or calls? i have asked you in advance but you didn't reply so i assumed that you do not want to meet me any more... hahahaha .. (laughing)

A:Oh! i am so sorry that i didn't reply, i was busy at that time til i forgot about it. But it doesn't mean i forget our date(hahahaha)..(laughing together) you really cannot come out even for a while?

B: sorry dude, i have many things waiting for me to be done and cleaned up, so i can't go out with you. You know , girl's things ... many things to clean ... hahahahah .. (so fake)

A: well then, that's ok. I will book you again in advance. Please spare some time for me ok?

B: Alright! you have a good day!

A:(laugh with disappointment) you have a good day too ...... bye!

B:Bye!

finally, i hung up the call with See Mei. hmm.. i was thinking sigh... get FFK ... hahahah ... nvm i tried another one.

A: Hi, David how are you? just to call up and say hi. Are you free for lunch or something?

B: Hi Danny! why didn't you call up this morning, i just came back from Pudu Raya Bus Station, i was there to send Junior and Drew to SG. You should have joined us for breakfast just now.

A: My god! why didn't you call me up and ask me? i will come along too if you informed me earlier... sigh ... sigh ...

B: Don't worry, they will be coming back again to look for you, this is what they told me just now.

A:(i was pissed off again)why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..... hhahahahah ... alright david i will look for you again when i am free (don't feel like going any where any more)

B: OK! have a good day, take care!

A: you too! take care, catch up soon...

sigh .... then i immediately sms Junior(an old friend from UK) to tell him that i was sorry not there for him while he was in KL last few days.

fine, i decided to turn on my Lap Top and see who is on my msn list....

msn signing in ... ding ... ding .... somebody just nudged me... i wondered who... opened and see is him(Jerry) a friend that i knew for long time but never meet before.

then i asked him , what's up dude? (his nick written there i am lonely, nobody goes out with me.)

so i wondered after so long we didn't meet up, why not just meet up for a drink or lunch. Then, i decided to ask him out.

hey dude wanna meet for a drink? then he says where? so i told him to meet at 2pm at Low Yat because i want to get a mouse(my mouse at home is not functioned any more since last nite) then , he replied hmmmm ..... can also but can you pick me up? if you don't then i won't be going coz i am lazy to go alone. After thinking a while ( i was thinking what a princess) , i told him i can't pick him up but i can send him back after that, he was still deciding .... in the end he told me to meet up near by his place for lunch. So i had to call up my friends and told them i will be late to meet them and change the plan to meet him first.

well, before meeting him i had to do all the house work (even cleaned my toilet) only i can go out .. sigh ... i spoiled my sunday morning by doing all those stupid things (but if i don't do that nobody is going to do for me)

130pm. i got all dressed up ready to go out,while on the way to Jerry's place out of sudden a msg pops up, i wondered who will sms me at this time.. Ops.. its Nemo(i am actually happy finally i get a sms from him) after few days finally he asks me out to meet him at KLCC but i have rejected him because i hope he would decent to come alone to meet up our friends together.Any way,eventually he asks me out, i was quite happy tho but i didn't feel like seeing him Just hope that he could join the society but in the end he hung up my call when i called him and even turned the phone off.

Why is everyone acting like this today?hmm..... so i met Jerry for lunch about 30 mins then i sent him home becasue of the rain. hai ... why rain?

my next destination is Low Yat ( while on my way Michelle called up and asked me out for lunch at lot10,so happy finally someone calls hahahah )i drove all the way from cheras to BB and i parked at Stand Chart (because i can get a cheaper parking rate as a Cali gym member)then i walked to lot 10 (my god if i don't have an umbrella i don't think i dare to park there because i will get all wet just to save some $$)Arrived at 245pm, wau ... even it was raining but it was so crowded over BB area...

Then, i managed to get my new mouse and the info of my new pc speakers (Kent told me to get me as a gift... so happy) looked at the time it was about 4pm. The Ms.Michelle still has not called me yet , then i called her to ask her what's the plan , she told me still in reliance to ask info for her trip to China during CNY.. i was like what the hell ... it's almost 4pm, is this our lunch ? hahahahah ... no doubt my friends are like this , always don meet on time .. always attend meeting or gathering late including myself.lol.....

well... lunch finally finished at 545pm.. then as usual we have to go home and have DINNER with family... lol ...

hmm .. so we walked together to the car parked and i have to walk to cali to get my car, looked at the time was still early for dinner.. so i just went to cali to get steamed and showered ... wau!! .. (i like the hot water at gym coz i will never get this kind of water at home ... heheheh)

came home, i saw everybody was eating together, hahahahah ... my aunt is cooking today no wonder just now i asked them to meet up for dinner at bb they don't want to go.. (so happy i get a free dinner)

that's my first weekend in 2008.